(I am just using the specific example to make a general point, since I have no idea who this guy is or where he lives.)
Damon's a manlet but I think Affleck has decent size and can handle himself better. Plus he's an alcoholic and Irish and from Boston, or at least pretends to be.
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/embed/6iz7k_tIdEY
The "Moral Cultures" paper on the progression from honor to dignity to victimhood cultures is essential reading, and worth mentioning given the later posts in the thread.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/272408166_Microaggression_and_Moral_Cultures
Rapid response police, surveillance, and the internet are the titanic-ghostly forces that overshadow all of our interactions. Our poetic-mythological understanding is lacking. Perhaps because we can't admit it or come to terms with it. A fragmentary draft: The infant in the nursery knows the greater forces, but does cannot speak or act; the man must contend with the titanic forces of nature, and so must speak, at one time to plan and understand, and at another as an incantation to affirm his agency. Without the burden of action and consequence, our speech is as the infant's. Nursery ethics replaces Nicomachean ethics.